Updated for 2021! I do the science so you don’t have to. This books shows older women how to find a quality mate in midlife. You can be in control of your choices and find success in love if you follow this system of trackable goals and continuous self-improvement. Plus, it’s a lot of fun! If you’ve been out of the dating world for the last 20 or 30 years, the book will also let you know how to handle the new world of online dating with ease. Pitfalls, tips and tricks to make dating again work for the older woman – it’s all here. Better Dating Through Engineering was vetted by a clinical psychologist, who not only pronounced the advice sound but stated that reading the book feels like sharing a cup of coffee with a good friend.

5.0 out of 5 stars Things Have Changed–Here’s Your Roadmap “…where can you meet other singles? How can you sort the promising prospects from the losers? And what criteria can you use to decide: is this person worth rearranging the life I’ve built to fully include them? It’s clear, systematic, and helpful, written in a conversational style that makes for a quick easy read.” – Amazon Reviewer

5.0 out of 5 stars Unique “When I was unwillingly divorced at the age of 40, I was plunged back into a dating world completely different from last time I was single which was in my 20s. I’ve been happily married now to a lovely man for 5 years and consider this easy-to-read book a little gem. If marriage is important to you and you are beyond the springtime of life, then I think Wendy S. Delmater’s book is perfectly tailored for encouraging you to be energised, realistic, and ultimately successful in finding long-lasting love. I loved the fact the author included much of her own experiences of the ups and downs along the way, showing the need for persistence, and the fact that it can be done!” – K. Robinson, UK Reviewer